Monday, January 25, 2010

Liveblog: The Pregnancy Pact

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Now down to the postage: this week's Unpro comes courtesy of the latest in the Lifetime lady-shaming ouevre, The Pregnancy Pact.  I was so eager to watch this kinda-but-not-really based on a true story, that I decided to live-Tweet it and put the results on my blog(in chronological order) for you to enjoy.  All you need to know is that a couple of years ago, Time magazine did a story on a small Massachusetts town that was experiencing a spike in teen pregnancy.  This was allegedly because of a pact made by agroup of teenage girls, though that was never proven to be the case.

My viewing experience?  Um, interesting.  More than a little stabby.  Read on:

Haha, covering your ass with a disclaimer. Lifetime FTW.

SCARE TACTICS! News montage practically fetishizing girls' sexuality, followed by copious MAKING OUT!

High school girl is NOT pregnant, and disappointed. She kind of reminds me of an underage Charlotte from Sex and the City.

Beware kissing! It gets you PREGNANT!

Has Thora Birch had work done? There's something off about her face.

Wow, look at her cool office! Just like all online magazine journalists have! Just like I have...oh wait.

Camryn Manheim the School Nurse is concerned(TM).

Redhead protagonist hugs her boyfriend w/ Zac Efron hair. Because kissing gets you PREGNANT: at least, that's what they want us to believe.

Zac Efron Hair has a shlight lishp. And I'm an ash-hole for laughing at it.

The principal reminds me of the police officer in the SNL Lifetime skit--won't listen to Camryn Nurse because she's a woman.

I keep wanting Nancy Travis to have an English accent like she did in Three Men and a Baby. Was Mary born because of a pact? I wonder...

Zac Efron hair "couldn't imagine being married to anyone elsh."

Thora Birch is all EDGY with her videocam and her snappy snarkiness. Ugh. Um, no way is that gay dude her former boyfriend!

Zac Efron Hair's dad has a cell phone outside church and is therefore a jerk. Because only rich people have cell phones.

Thora Birch used to live in the small town but "went away suddenly." I wonder WHY? WHY? WHY?

Nancy Travis is all, "you kids and your blogs."

Why is redhead protagonist SO FOCUSED on getting married? It's weird. Zac Efron Hair, of course, just wants to have shex.

Redhead protagonist=deliberately pregnant. "OMG, I'm gonna have a baby!" Her friends swear secrecy on the pact. I need cheesecake, yo.

Seriously, are teenage girls really this stupid? I knew 2 girls who got pregnant at my high school in the same year. No talk of a pact.

During commercials: Should I get back into Project Runway? I dunno.

Disclaimer AGAIN? They must really be afraid of a lawsuit. Here's the contemplative guitar music and mirror-gazing. Condoms. They work!

High school Charlotte is kind of the badass rebel of the group. Huh.

Okay, Thora Birch lived in the crap small town for 2 years and therefore has NO right to complain about having no friends.

A video blog on teen issues? That's her full time job. O-kay.

Her ex is the gay-seeming guy who works at the school. Of course he knocked her up. Did he look at Honcho before doing the deed?

Obligatory Courtroom Scene, except I think it's more of a tribunal. Which I don't think would take place in a COURTROOM.

I know I'm asking a lot for a Lifetime movie to make sense, but why does pregnancy glamorizing=no birth control?

Conservative pro-abstinence Nancy Travis is SERVING Camryn Manheim with her scarves and silver jewelry.

High school Charlotte is wearing Jon Gosselin's patterned castoffs. Maybe he's the babydaddy.

Barfing! Nancy Travis Concerned Face. The Inevitable "Don't Be Mad," dad dragging daughter by arm, and Rich Asshole Zac Efron Hair Dad.

Commercial: Oh wow, a movie with fat suits that looks waaaaay more offensive than Shallow Hal.

Commercial: Am really sad. Was invited to 4 press screenings of "Dear John" and can't make ANY of them.

Why is there horror movie music over a pregnancy movie? Oh right, it's LIFETIME. I hate the whole "value yourself"=not have sex. God.

Actor who plays redhead's father. Have seen him somewhere and it's driving me crazy. I think he played a jerk. Using IMDb is cheating.

How is Zac Efron Hair "shupposed" to act? He should have figured out how to get "condomsh."

These are the girls who Oprah wants you to think have "rainbow parties." Even after that was proved to be a myth.

Now when someone says "sexually active," I think of Juno. It's a very strange term when you think about it.

Oh God, I'm getting a hipster Elizabeth Wakefield vibe from Thora Birch. All that's missing is the black-fingernailed shoulder pat.

Gay Ex in his checkered shirt is Concerned. He is way too natty to have knocked up a girl. Unless it was via turkey baster.

This movie was so clearly written by a 45-year-old trying to be hip but still afraid of the interwebs.

And who believes in rainbow parties.

Gay Ex is soooo in denial. You know his hot wife is either really Christian or goes to New York and swings on the weekends.

Commercial: Skinny Marie Osmond looks like a cross-eyed Barbie. It's not a good look for her. At all.

"Plus, all the girls in the olden days were married." Thanks, Thora Bitch, from all the single moms of America.

Gas stations sell condoms by the STRIP? I've never seen that ever.

Zac Efron Hair: "misherable." Perhapsh shome shpeech therapy would be of asshishtansh.

She's doing the Sarah Marshall pulling-his-face-to-her-face.

A Catholic mom is fundraising for the daycare? The Catholic moms I knew wouldn't have done that. Too deep in denial.

AGH, now I empathize with Thora Birch. Adoption is okay.

Sepia flashback: "let's all get pregnant and raise our babies together!" Big smiles. Now I understand all the disclaimers: that was a LIE.

Nancy Travis Status Update: I am haggard.

Yes, confide in a reporter. God, was I ever that stupid?

"So this is what it feels like to be Jamie Lynn Spears"???? What are they, at a coed boarding school for tweens?

Zoey 101 reference FTW!

Zac Efron Hair: "Did you get pregnant on purposh?" I wish he'd say porpoish. He is shorry for his accushation.

Oooh, "peer pressure." It's like a time travel machine to DARE 1988!

Is Camryn Manheim going to swoop in with magic condoms and save the day? Please make it so!

Aw, here's the lawyer! Combined with the rich asshole dad spouting cliches and screaming.

I doubt even my Catholic mother would refer to teenage me's out-of-wedlock baby as a "precious gift from God." At my gyno appointment.

That tabloid reporter looks like Pee Wee Herman. And Redhead's Dad is kicking his ass. Oh noes, Zac Efron Hair got arreshted!

By the way, teenage me did not have an out of wedlock baby. Partly because pregnancy scared the shit out of me. Still does.

Commercial: Did you know that there's a gay love story in "Valentine's Day"? Right, 'cause it's not in any preview. Hollywood, I hate you.

Thora Birch is being all JOURNALIST-Y. For her very famous blog that makes her enough to live in NYC.

Also, aren't teen pregnancy rates actually down from previous years?

Now we're talking Paternity Test (TM)! I really can't wait to see Lifetime Wow's take on this.

Oooh, now Nancy Travis is being kicked off the PTA council thingy. Her eyeshadow is very unhappy about this.

The timeline is all messed up. I'm not sure how pregnant Redhead is, or how long Thora's been in town.

Thora Birch totally went to the Elizabeth Wakefield School of Sanctimony. You heard it here first.

Ten bucks that Redhead conveniently miscarries.

Way to go, editors. That baby in an incubator is totally stock footage. They didn't even try. My shit laptop coulda done better.

I think Gay Ex and Thora Birch need to call a truce and head out to Musical Theatre Monday for cocktails and showtunes.

Ohhhh, I think Thora Birch had a shmashmortion.

"Was there a pact or wasn't there?" The reporters are confuuuuuused!

The moment of truth: there was a pact!!!!! Way to dishappoint your babydaddy, Redhead.

Commercial: Aaaand a Precious wannabe. They turned that around quick.

Underage Charlotte has determined her babydaddy. Heartfelt mother-daughter confession in car GO!

Mom said "butt!" Oprah fans everywhere are scandalized.

Redhead's dad said, "we're a little numb down here." Tell me the screenwriter didn't put that in on purpose.

Redhead just made a confession that ups her dumb quotient. I wouldn't trust my kid either if she were open about wanting a baby at 15.

It's a party! With teenage drinking shenanigans. And probably fornicating.

Hold up, is Redhead wearing a SCRUNCHIE?! And I'm pulling a Carrie Bradshaw: any iota of believability? Out the window!

Oh crap, Redhead just took a DRINK! Noooooooo! Also, there was roughing up, aka Miscarriage Foreshadowing. You know it's coming.

Now Thora Birch is telling Nancy Travis how to parent. Somewhere Liz Wakefield is smiling gently and patting her own shoulder.

Kristy Thomas is probably pretty proud of herself too.

Thora Birch's confession: she DIDN'T have the a-word. Because God forbid anyone in a Lifetime movie take that option and not, you know, die.

Redhead: passed out! Why do I want to sing "Pants on the Ground"?

Her pants are intact, FYI.

Someone had to say it: kids, don't drink and drive.

Wow, baby survived. Maybe the alcohol will have the reverse effect and she'll be smarter than her dumbass mom.

Wow, Nancy Travis is a hypocrite. But her daughter's mistakes. Were way worse.  (That's how. The line was said.)

This really is Full House: Now With Even Less Birth Control. It's a weird hybrid of Slut Shaming and Consequence-Free Teen Pregnancy.

I know all kids make mistakes, but Thora Birch didn't grow up in that town. She REALLY wouldn't have hunted down condoms?

Aaaand the abstinence message STILL prevails. Even though Nancy Travis herself didn't abstain before marriage.

Thora Birch admits that her "knee jerk liberal" mind has been changed by Nancy Travis' Magic Speech of Abstinence. And I go kill myself.

Color me shocked: Zac Efron Hair got a girlfriend who washn't knocked up.

Closing shot: stupid Redhead cuddling her baby and Thora Birch saying "congratulations." Brought to you by Sarah Palin.

Camryn Manheim says over the credits: "talk to your teens about sex." Start with the mixed messages of this movie.

GARRRRR. This movie wasn't as fun to snark as I thought. It just made me stabby. And it made me want to buy condoms, and I'm not even 15.

So later, when I bitched about this horrible movie, a friend of mine asked why I watched it in the first place. I mean, a Lifetime movie about teen pregnancy is most likely NOT going to be the most sex-positive thing around, so it's a valid question.  I guess my answer is this: I thought it would be eminently funny and snarkable like so many of its counterparts (Co-Ed Call Girl, anyone?).  Maybe it was that way for other people, but it turned out not to be the case for me.

Why?  It's an issue way closer to my heart than co-ed call girls or cheating wives.

Unpro Steps Up on a Very Brief Soapbox

Here's the thing: teen pregnancy isn't good.  I have no doubt that there ARE girls out there who are so uninformed and sheltered that they think getting pregnant before you graduate high school is, in fact, great. With The Pregnancy Pact, Lifetime had a real opportunity to warn against teen pregnancy, while promoting alternatives that are indeed positive: birth control, effective parental communication, and most of all, things that teens can do (together, or by themselves) that aren't intercourse but are still fun and healthy and normal. Because making birth control available won't turn teenagers into sexmongers (well, any more than they already are)--it will just make them more informed and safer.  Also, not every teen is ready to have sex, but there are other ways to feel good that don't carry the risk of pregnancy and STD's.

But no.  Lifetime took those opportunities and shot them STRAIGHT TO HELL.  Because who needs education, information and excitation when you have the ever-effective abstinence?


*end rant*

Just a quick heads-up: next week, I will be heading out of town for the two-week writing residency I mentioned in my last post.  During that time, you'll get two amazing pop culture-related guest posts: one from Etiquette Bitch and one from Nikki of Are You There Youth?  It's Me, Nikki.  Should be fun!

See ya in a few weeks, and as always, thanks a mil for reading.


  1. Oh man, this sounds awful.

    Wait...THORA BIRCH?! My homegirl is reduced to LIFETIME MOVIES while Scar Jo gets to be in theatre released versions of actual movies! NOOOOOOOO.

  2. I know, I know: Thora is WAY better than this shiznit. Granted, this isn't her first Lifetime movie--she was in "Homeless to Harvard," but at least that was inspirational (I'm guessing, from the title) and not some preachy piece of agit-prop treacle.

    Someone needs to write an HBO or Showtime series for her.

  3. Heh. I was just going to say what Sadako said. What the fuck is Thora Birch doing in this?????

    Also, Shmashmortion. Awesome.

  4. It's funny...I noticed that Lifetime, Wow! also used "shmashmortion" in their recap. Knocked Up FTW!

    Seriously, what happened to Thora's career? And I haven't liked ScarJo in anything since Match Point.

  5. Hey, where's Jeremy's comment? ;)

    I LOVED your recap. Reminds me of the time I saw an awful Kevin Costner chick flick, then acted it out for my friends in Spain. They laughed and deemed it "probably better than the real thing."

    I'm thinking we should re-cap a bad movie some time. Cheers!

  6. EB--Sisto is staying quiet on this one. I hope for that man's sake he NEVER has to stoop this low career-wise.

    I'd love to recap a bad movie with you sometime. It's a date!

  7. Bored out of my mind, I decided to watch this tonight and found your blog while Googling to find out why they had so many darn disclaimers. Lifetime should thank you, because without this live blog I *never* would've finished the movie. I actually read along with your live blog the entire time, which made me laugh in a way I'd wished the movie could. Not that it's a laughable topic, but I was hoping for more camp. I agree that Lifetime missed a huge opportunity here (and Redhead was awful, awful, awful) and the dialog was straight out of high school play at best. But thanks to your live blog, I couldn't get enough. Darn you. "Porpoish" - ha! Thanks for the laughs.

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